The only Way is Forgiveness
If asked; who, in your life, is unforgivable… most of us have someone who readily swims into our consciousness without too much of a struggle. Often closely followed by the thought that we’ll NEVER forgive them for what they did… Continue reading
The Blame Game – update
😆 Question – Why would anyone play a game where ultimately there are no winners…just sad losers?
Yet it seems so many of us are caught in this energy/happiness-sapping game. Just  look around… how much finger pointing, accusations, buck… Continue reading
Spot the Victim
Emotional healing, in my experience, sometimes isn’t for the faint of heart.
One of the biggest pitfalls in personal growth is the misconception that after we do some personal development work/workshops/healing/course we start to believe that we are sorted, that… Continue reading
This too shall pass…
So far today I have walked Sid, been swimming, had my bloods done and enjoyed a coffee with a friend. All the things that normally make my heart sing… ok… maybe not the blood test!
But I woke up feeling… Continue reading
Hero to Zero
February 14th Valentine’s Day. Headline: Oscar Pistorius charged with murder after girlfriend shot dead.
My initial thoughts were … Surely this has to be a tragic accident. He seemed such a great bloke, very personable; in fact, I reckoned… Continue reading
How do shamanic Animals chose you ? …Part 1
Being told by a small kitten that I was to take him home was a bit of a shock to say the least; especially as I’d no conscious desire to have another cat.
Do-do, my sweet elderly moggie was thoroughly… Continue reading
How to truly forgive and set yourself free
A dear friend asked me recently; what does it actually mean to forgive?
And how do we know if we have truly forgiven someone?
It’s almost a prerequisite of the human condition that we experience being hurt by others. Misunderstandings… Continue reading
Meditation…why bother?
I learnt to meditate officially at my first ever personal development workshop. We were given a mantra and told the correct way to meditate…sit in this position; no pets in the room; practice for 20 minutes twice a day; pay… Continue reading
Why do ceremony?
Many of you who know my work, will know the importance I place on creating sacred space and performing ceremonies. In October I will lead the Empowering Woman circle in an honouring and celebration of all our ancestors. And just… Continue reading
Where are you?
Three possible places…
1. You’re a victim.
We are virtually all born feeling we are powerless. Most of us stay that way. We think the world is out to get us: the government, the neighbours, the society, the bad guys… Continue reading