The Blame game

Why would anyone play a game where ultimately there are no winners…just losers?

Yet so many of us are caught in this life- sapping game; look around …how much finger pointing, accusations, buck passing, using excuses or defending do you… Continue reading

Why do ceremony?

Many of you who know my work, will know the importance I place on creating sacred space and performing ceremonies. In October I will lead the Empowering Woman circle in an honouring and celebration of all our ancestors. And just… Continue reading

Where are you?

Three possible places…

1. You’re a victim.
We are virtually all born feeling we are powerless. Most of us stay that way. We think the world is out to get us: the government, the neighbours, the society, the bad guys… Continue reading

The Cookie Thief

There’s a nice poem by Valerie Cox circulating about a woman who bought some cookies and a book at an airport and sat down to read and nibble while waiting for her plane. She soon noticed a man sitting next… Continue reading

My dear Dad

On this day four years ago my Dad lost his battle with cancer and left his body.
I still miss him every day.
I cry the tears as they surface.
Honouring the process of grief helps facilitate this sweet release… Continue reading

Whats in a word?

I think the words we use both inwardly to ourselves and outwardly to anyone who’ll listen can reveal a great deal. Words can alter our mood, they can comfort, reassure, express love or be the source of conflict and grief… Continue reading

The Mayonnaise Jar and the Coffee

A very dear friend of mine is having a tough time at the moment. I recalled this story and shared it with him. He said that these words helped him put things into perspective and suggested I shared it with you.

When… Continue reading

Taking it personally..

Taking nothing personally has become a mantra by which I live my life…most of the time….

In Don Miguel Ruiz’s great little book: The four agreements, the author suggests that nothing that others do is because of you. What they… Continue reading

Everyone is loved…

1. There are at least two people in this world
that you would die for.

2. At least 15 people in this world
love you in some way.

3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you
is because they… Continue reading

Letting Go

We all have things that we hold on to that no longer serve our best interest. Letting go is a well used snippet of advice freely given but HOW do we actually do it?

First and foremost the question must… Continue reading

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